Free tool
Together Since Calculator
Enter the date you started together. Watch the counter run in real time — days, hours, minutes, seconds.
The Together Since Calculator shows in real time how long a couple has been together — days, hours, minutes and seconds. Works without signup, no data collection. The date stays only on your screen. To share with your own link, create a couple's page.
Calculator
Pick a date above to start the count.
How it works
- 1Pick the relationship start date (first date, first kiss, the official day — you decide).
- 2The counter runs in real time, updating every second.
- 3Want this counter on a dedicated page with a 3D vinyl of your song and printable QR? Create a couple page on LovePaper.
Frequently asked questions
How to count relationship time correctly?
The start of the relationship can be three different dates: the day of the first date, the day of the first kiss, or the day you made it official. Most couples pick the official day. Use the date that makes sense for you — there's no rule. Once chosen, keep it the same every anniversary.
Should I count in months or years?
Depends on the phase. In the first year, counting in months (1 month, 3 months, 6 months, 1 year) is more common. After the first year, most couples count in years. But it's free — some couples celebrate 'monthsaries' for life, others switch to years after 6 months.
Does this counter work without signup?
Yes. The calculator runs 100% in your browser, no signup, no login, no data collection. The date you enter never leaves your screen. If you want a permanent shareable version with 3D vinyl and more, create a couple's page on LovePaper.
Can I share the count with my partner?
Not in this simple counter — the date stays only on your screen. To share a count with its own link (that they open and see running live), create a Couple's Song page on LovePaper. Lifetime payment, with counter, 3D vinyl and printable QR.
What's considered a serious relationship in time?
There's no fixed number. But studies show 6 months is the milestone where most couples transition from 'dating' to 'in a relationship'. 1 year is the first symbolic anniversary. 3 years is statistically the point couples decide to move in or get engaged.